Dating can be challenging, but you don’t have to navigate it alone. Our coaching sessions are designed to provide support, guidance, and practical strategies—whether you’re new to the gay community, returning to dating, or simply wanting to strengthen your confidence and approach. Your coach/matchmaker will support you on your journey and help you attract successful relationships into your life and create meaningful connections. This will be especially useful for gay men who are willing to honestly confront their current dating/relationship challenges and potentials.

it to your matchmaking membership for only $179/month.




We'll talk about...

Solving real-life dating challenges as they arise
Confronting negative thoughts that block intimacy and connection
Navigating issues of attraction, self-image, pacing, and HIV
Understanding and avoiding common pitfalls in the gay dating scene
Embracing your sexuality or finding your footing if you’re new to the community
Support through the coming-out process
Identifying and qualifying LTR-seeking men outside of Gayquation
Marketing yourself authentically and effectively
Balancing online and offline approaches to dating
First-date ideas, questions, and etiquette
General dating tips, strategies, and personalized advice
Any other individual topics you’d like to address
NEW! Group sessions with up to 2 fellow clients (learn more below)


How it works

  • You may schedule up to 2 sessions, with the option to book additional ones as needed.

  • Coaching calls run 60–90 minutes on average.

  • Alongside scheduled calls, you’re welcome to email your coach 7 days a week; all messages are answered within 24 hours.

  • Group sessions are completely voluntary.

  • Every coaching session is private and confidential.

At Gayquation, we’re here to support you every step of the way—not just in finding the right match, but in becoming the best version of yourself in the process.



You’ll Learn How To:

- Be more confident and in control of your love life
- Inspire sexual chemistry in the right men
- Become more open and create emotionally rewarding connections
- Attract relationship-ready men
- Break patterns of negative thinking that are holding you back
- Moving online acquaintances to offline dates
- Weed out guys that aren’t right for you
- Become a more effective dater
- Flirt authentically
- Discover your true romantic value and make the most of it


We’re Ready To Work Together If:

- You’re able to commit to a process and give it your all
- You’re a smart & capable man but know you need a shift in your perspective
- You’re open to confronting difficult and even controversial topics
- You’re ready to make a serious investment in yourself
- You’re open to feedback and constructive crticism
- You’re ready to build your dating foundation and prepare for future love
- You’re patient with yourself and the process








Included in every membership...


Guarantee      Protect      Boost      Optima
   Insta-Date       Spark       Passport  


& more...

Insta-Match       Mystery Match       Speed Dating


Learn about our other Add-On: Momentum.

Also, view our Help/FAQ page and request a consultation.



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