Say Goodbye to Dating Apps!

Say hello to your own personal matchmaker.
Be on your first date within 7 days.

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Experience a dating system designed exclusively for gay men. Conventional methods don't seem to work for LTR seekers in this exploding app age and the hookup scene being so prevalent in our community. Thus Gayquation was born! We are the world's leading gay matchmaking service, with a unique focus on m4m chemistry and statistics that equal real results.

Unlike dating sites there are no robots employed here. All the work is done by your very own matchmaker whom you have direct contact with throughout the entire process - including an in-depth phone interview. We also don't charge exorbitant fees or contracts like boutique-style agencies or what you see on TV. Be assigned a matchmaking team for less than your cable bill.

Gayquation provides guaranteed introductions, regardless of your demographics, location or criteria. As part of your team, we'll dramatically increase your chances, up to 10x, of finding your ONE AND ONLY.

how our matchmaking works



1-on-1 Attention

We provide a high level of personalized concierge style service. Our matchmakers work tirelessly one-on-one with each of our clients to find men custom tailored to what they are looking for. Your matchmaker and his team will offer you a relaxed, fun and exciting way to get introduced and meet many eligible men. So while you are busy excelling in your profession, we will be busy searching and personally screening ideal candidates for you, giving you the time back to do everything you want and focus on your daily responsibilities and enjoyments. Request A Free Consultation


The Gayquotient™

Our interviews and observations work for you. They reveal the quirks that are exclusive to guys and the varying traits that separate straight men from gay men. Our team excels at discovery skills and are not bashful in discussing topics that are specific to gay men. We ask direct questions and give personal recommendations based on your demographics and criteria. The assessment process puts into framework a character analysis which delves deeply into personalities and lifestyles while understanding your needs and market size. What's Your Gayquotient?

Equation for Gay Men

An Equation for Gay Men

We present you qualified and pre-screened men, all of whom we are confident will meet your criteria. Each match is hand selected with the use of strong intuition, experience and knowledge of m4m-specific relationships. We find our candid, personable yet straight forward approach to be proven many times over. Gayquation is a balanced combination of traditional and progressive matchmaking in the new age of technology and dating. We are also aware of and follow the trends that affect the gay community and apply this knowledge to our matchmaking style and coaching. How It Works?

Our Services


Matchmaking  Matchmaking

We are here to help you as your relationship headhunter. Experience real matchmakers who will provide you 1-on-1 attention, specialized in matchmaking gay men. Gayquation makes it easy - we do all the work. We find the men who want to meet you and fit what you're looking for. Up to 4 introductions per month! Learn More

Coaching  Coaching

Gayquation is pleased to offer personal coaching. This will be especially useful for gay men who are willing to honestly confront their current dating/relationship challenges and potentials. Along with setting up quality introductions, your matchmaker will support you on your journey and help you attract successful relationships into your life and create meaningful connections. Learn More

Momentum  Momentum

Enhance your matchmaking membership with an added personalized service that helps clients beyond the introduction phase. With professional guidance from your matchmaker, propel past the early stages of communication and into the courtship phase. Keep track of your dating progress and make changes to increase your chances of establishing and enhancing connections. Learn More


Included in all our memberships...


Match Guarantee

We are very confident in the “Gayquation” and our qualified and professional matchmakers. But we want all of our clients to feel comfortable and secure in our matchmaking process, regardless of one's demographics, location or criteria. For this reason we offer the Match Guarantee. Learn More


Background Checks

The days of vetting every one you meet on the internet are over. With GQProtect, included in your service, your matchmaker will perform a background check on every prospective match to verify identity and insure your privacy, security and safety. Learn More


Market Report

Receive real time data and recommendations with Optima. Your matchmaking team will assess your short and long term outlook in finding and qualifying matches that meet your criteria and customize his approach, based on new and past results. Learn More


Boost Ups

Boost identifies the challenges you may have faced in the dating world, based on your demographics, location or criteria. By identifying these variables early on, your matchmaker can tailor a "plan of attack" that increases the chances of introducing you to men that meet all your criteria. Learn More


Virtual Dates

Busy schedule? Out of town? As part of your Insta-dates, your matchmaker can convert your first face-to-face meeting to an online date. Why wait? Grab a cup of coffee or perhaps a cocktail and let's get you both connected right away. Learn More



Our bonus service Passport is included for those open to a long distance relationship or looking to relocate. Passport helps increase the chances of this type of relationship by connecting you to your match immediately via phone, FaceTime or Skype. Learn More



Trust is what makes it work


We aim to make every part of your experience as simple, fun and as pleasant as possible. Our Matchmakers will personally ensure that you receive our prompt and careful attention at all times. There are no robots here and we do not have a computer system spidering profiles. As part of our matchmaking process, we utilize all available resources and state of the art technology to deliver quality service which focuses on the richness of the experience and includes an ‘executive’ decision making style based on our clients’ well being, happiness and overall success. Read more

Get Started Today!

Be assigned your own personal matchmaking team and on your first date in as early as 7 days.
No contracts. No setup fees. Cancel anytime.
View our complete step by step guide here.

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Request A Free Consultation

100% complimentary. No time limits. 7 days a week.
There's absolutely no obligation to purchase a membership. It's our pleasure to speak with you and make sure we are a good fit.
Please take your time and ask all the questions you have. We accommodate both phone (U.S/Canada) and Skype calls (Worldwide). Submit your contact info below.

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A Gayquation matchmaker will be contacting you within 24 hours to schedule your consultation.

Thank you.


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