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The world's leading gay matchmaker that works exclusively for relationship-focused men.

Say goodbye to .

Say goodbye to hookup apps, blind dating services and pricey agencies. Say hello to genuine, LTR-seeking men. Say hello to your own matchmaking team. Say hello to Gayquation.

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Select number of matches.

Team assigned and interview.

First date as early as 7 days.

Included features.

Guaranteed Intros

Choose up to 4 intros per month. Stop anytime. No blind dating.

Personal Team

You'll be assigned up to 3 dedicated matchmakers.

Insta-Dates

Be introduced via email, phone, Zoom or in-person.

Background Checks

With GQ Protect, we verify everyone's authenticity.

Post-Intro Assistance

Add-on services, like Momemtum, help you along the way.

Market Reports

Insight, forecast, numbers, and feedback with Optima.

Plus 7 more features!

Mystery Match Monday, Virtual Speed Dating & More. View all our awesome features.

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Your Own Team.

Think of us like your relationship headhunter. Experience real matchmakers who provide 1-on-1 attention, specialized in matching gay men.

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Date Coaching.

This will be especially useful for gay men who are willing to honestly confront their current dating/relationship challenges and potentials.

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How About A Nudge?

Introducing Momemtum! With guidance from your matchmaker, propel past the early stages of communication and into the courtship phase.

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Your Relationship Headhunter.

Optimizing Your Dating Life.

Improved Chances Up to 400%.

Your Relationship Headhunter.

Optimizing Your Dating Life.

Improved Chances Up to 400%.

Our Most Recent Introductions.

Luke & Alan Chicago

Lee & Tony London

Carlos & Peter Los Angeles

TJ & Gil Miami

Horace & Chris Atlanta

Jamal & Stephen Dallas

James & Yanni New York

Daniel & Gonzalo Toronto

Jomo & Darren Portland

Blair & Matt Minneapolis

Proud to have made over 300,000 introductions & counting.

Loved by our valued worldwide clients

Thanks for the nudge!

If you've been on and off dating websites for years because your friends are in relationships and hardly go out anymore or you're new in town... that was me in a nutshell! Thank you to Nick and the team for making me feel welcome and (nudging) getting me back on that horse. I met a great friend who has since become my travel companion. We just returned from a Caribbean cruise. Although friends are invaluable, I am hoping my future hubby (and Netflix binge companion) will turn around that corner any day now.

Larry M.

Brooklyn, NY

Happy to have found them.

2020 was a forgettable in so many ways. Vaxxed, it's summer and able to travel. I am sure, like most, we are all busy socializing to catch up for lost time. At my age, a ripe 62, a little assistance goes a long way and it has. Along the way, made a new friend with whom I'll visit the Cape with this summer. In the meantime, crossing fingers on a friend AND lover. I appreciate the support and understanding.

Ben L.

Cambridge, MA

Newly out gay man.

42 y/o, 1 child, divorced, living in Phoenix. The coaching I received was a God sent. The last time I was single was AOL chats (remember those?) and I had to not only rediscover dating but dating in 2018. It is very different to say the least. My coach/matchmaker did a great job in getting myself back on that horse and figuring out what I want - as a gay man. My first pride month too! Wish me luck.

Tony G.

Scottsdale, AZ

Hugs from Gordon.

A quick thank you to my coach and matchmaker Nicholas P. - who has been a tremendous on my personal life, including outside Gayquation. He is attentive, honest (sometimes too honest), and above all else a hard worker. I did happen to find a partner while using his services but he was a big reason in finding him. His advice is invaluable and will still keep the coaching service as it's nice to talk to someone, especially early in a relationship and after 10 years of being in one.

Gordon M.

Tampa, FL

Thank you for the hope.

Greetings from Hong Kong! I hired a matchmaker just before joining gayquation and was charged (you don't want to know) an exorbitant amount. Gayquation on the contrary is quite reasonable. My matchmaker spoke to me for 1 1/2 hours via Skype. People expect so much from service that are supposed to deliver you men? Haha I am realistic and was pleasantly surprised. It is not easy being out as a Chinese man, even here in more liberalized HK, let alone finding Caucasian men open to dating me.

Louis C.

Hong Kong, HK

Appreciated transparency.

Almost honest to a fault Gayquation does spell out its entire process on their website, which I am appreciative of. It's probably the most thorough and detailed site I've seen and I've seen many. Please note if you're looking for a traditional matchmaking agency, they are not that but effective. They do not only match you to other clients within their network but also, as they put it, head hunt in as many as 100 resources. I would rather gladly put myself in their hands then have to go out there in the Internet ether with little to no results.

Laval B.

Chicago, IL