Your matchmaking team will do all the work of locating, screening, communicating with and qualifying prospective matches on your behalf.
We know how difficult it can be to find genuine LTR seeking men, so if they exist, WE WILL FIND THEM!




Step 1: Select Membership Level

How many introductions would you like per month? You have a choice between 2 and 4. Every match is guaranteed with our Match Guarantee - regardless of your location, demographics and/or criteria.



Step 2: Complete Questionnaire

Let’s get an idea of what you’re looking for. It will include "laws of attraction" qualities, like distance, age, physicality, lifestyle traits, etc. Your information and answers are kept confidential and only viewed by your personal matchmaker. This will provide your matchmaker a jumping off point.



Step 3: Assignment to Your Team

Within 48 hours after your complete the questionnaire, we make your first introduction – to your matchmaker - with whom you have direct communication with from hereon. You will be assigned a Senior Matchmaker, along with his team that includes a second matchamker to assist. Photo and interview request emails will also be sent to you.



Step 4: Phone Interview

It’s time for you and your matchmakers to get to know each other as part of your Gayquotient. The interview with your Lead Matchmaker is approximately 90 minutes in length. This is your opportunity to define deal breakers and negotiable traits (physical, personal and lifestyle). You will also be able to ask questions and your matchmaker will give you his assessment at the end of the call. From here, email will be the primary form of communication with all correspondance being answered within 24 hours. If you elect for Coaching, you will receive bi-weekly phone sessions.



Step 5: Team Begins Search

Your matchmakers will venture inside and outside Gayquation to find and communicate with eligible bachelors within your desired radius. Every match will have met all your deal breakers and express interest in connecting with you. He may also be open to an in-person introduction. A potential candidate may “die on the vine” at many points of the process. For example, your matchmaker may reject someone if he feels the match is not genuinely seeking a relationship or predicts a slim to no chance at a long term connection. Your matchmaker will confirm with you first before green lighting the match and perform a background check to validate his authenticity.



Step 6: Introduction Is Made

Once your matchmaker green lights a match, he will package and send you all his information directly via email. You will then get an opportunity to review his info and inform your matchmaker whether you would like to be introduced via email, phone, online (Zoom) or in person via an Insta-Date.

If you select email or phone, you will reach out to your match from here and go at your desired pace. If you select an Insta-Date, your matchmaker will now become your “Date Butler” and help facilitate a meeting, including time and place. Learn more.



Step 7: Two-Way Feedback

Feedback is an essential part of the process and helps narrow our blinders and improve match quality going forward. Along with your match’s info, you will receive his thoughts on a Probability of Connection (POC). Your matchmaker may also give recommendations in order to widen the potential market and improve the odds. You will receive periodic market and progress reports by Optima.



Step 8: Until We Hit The Jackpot!

Your matchmaker continues his search, even as you correspond with other matches. He won’t stop until you say so. We realize our clients give us a tremendous amount of blind faith and trust during this process, so in return we work diligently to find sincere men who, like yourself, are searching for Mr. Right. Perhaps that Mr. Right will be you.

So what are we waiting for? Let's go find him!




Included in every membership...


Guarantee      Protect     Forecast   Boost     Passport


Learn more about where we find potential matches.

Also, view our Help/FAQ page and request a consultation.



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