Deciphering Your Equation for Love
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For the first time ever, Gayquation introduces a groundbreaking 2-day immersive course on your equation of finding love — called Bond.
Led by Nick Papadopoulos, one of the most experienced and trusted matchmakers in the industry, this course offers intimate insight into the real mechanics of connection.
With over 25 years of experience specializing in the gay male community, Nick shares proven strategies, data, and coaching frameworks — giving you a more
customized and transparent roadmap toward a lasting partnership.
What You’ll Gain
- A data-driven understanding of your dating market — viability, demand, and positioning
- Personalized optimization strategies based on your goals, location, and lifestyle
- Tools to shift from frustration to focus — turning effort into measurable results
- A clear, actionable “relationship business plan” designed just for you
A Real Conversation About Modern Gay Dating
Let’s face it — dating as a single gay man in 2026 isn’t easy.
Between swipe culture, emotional burnout, and a shrinking long-term-relationship pool, genuine connection takes more than luck.
That’s why Bond isn’t for everyone. Expect real talk, hard truths, and deep reflection — mixed with empathy, humor,
and Nick’s no-nonsense coaching style. From seasoned professionals to newly out men, from single fathers to Gen Z dreamers —
this course is for every gay man ready to evolve his approach.
Connection Beyond the Course
You’ll also have the opportunity to connect with other men on similar journeys — sharing stories, breakthroughs, and perhaps forming unexpected bonds.
While Bond isn’t a speed-dating event, many participants walk away with new friendships… and sometimes, something even deeper.
Join Us This Winter
Take part in the most comprehensive, eye-opening, and transformational journey ever offered by Gayquation —
a two-day experience that may forever change how you see yourself, love, and partnership.
👉 Bond is currently sold out. Join the waitlist and we’ll notify you if spots open.
Day 1: Deconstruction
Assessing your chances
Date: March 2, 2026
Time: 8pm ET / 5pm PT
Duration: 3 hours
Online: Via Webex
Capacity: Limited to 25 (updated availability below)
Open to: Members
Cost: $299 for both days (Day 3 is optional)
Speaker: Nick Papadopoulos (Senior Executive Matchmaker for Gayquation)
Moderator: Marie Rainey (Director of Operations for Gayquation)
Assistant Moderator: Greg Turnbull (Junior Matchmaker for Gayquation)
Topics Covered
- Breaking down your numbers/odds
- Assessing your viability and market size
- Historical changes over 20 years across 10+ metrics (sexual roles, interracial dating, out status, single fathers, long distance, etc.)
- Where your criteria fits within the single gay male population
- Deal breakers vs negotiable traits
- Is your dating sample size large enough?
- Do you really know what you’re looking for? (hint: only ~20% of singles do)
- Choosing vs settling (hint: ~90% settle—consciously or subconsciously)
- Are you making partner choices emotionally or logically?
- Live 1-on-1 assessments with audience members
- Q&A (submit questions at least 48 hours prior: click here)
Day 2: Reconstruction
Optimizing your chances
Date: March 3, 2026
Time: 8pm ET / 5pm PT
Duration: 3 hours
Online: Via Webex
Capacity: Limited to 25 (updated availability below)
Open to: Members
Cost: $299 for both days (Day 3 is optional)
Speaker: Nick Papadopoulos (Senior Executive Matchmaker for Gayquation)
Moderator: Marie Rainey (Director of Operations for Gayquation)
Assistant Moderator: Andreas Baro (Senior Matchmaker for Gayquation)
Topics Covered
- Business planning & strategizing your dating life
- Becoming a bottomliner
- Stress testing your criteria
- Selecting your path: remain a dater or become LTR-ready
- Defining and staying true to your deal breakers
- Optimizing your online and offline approach
- The Nudge technique: moving app conversations forward
- Identifying flags on your first meetup/date
- Propelling past a first date; identifying mutual interest
- Following the “2 Date Rule” & “3 Date Rule”
- Becoming a better dater
- Live 1-on-1 coaching sessions with audience volunteers
- Q&A (submit questions at least 48 hours prior: click here)
Day 3: Bonding
1-on-1 Session (optional)
Date: March 4–6, 2026
Time: Scheduled in advance (10am–10pm ET / 7am–7pm PT)
Duration: 90 minutes
Online: Via phone call
Limit: 10
Open to: Members
Cost: Additional $99 (or $129 without course)
Coach: Nick Papadopoulos & Andreas Baro (Senior Matchmakers for Gayquation)
Topics Covered
- Personal assessment and strategy meeting
- Detailed data & odds based on your criteria, location and demo
- The Criteria Test
- The Self-Aware Test
- Optimizing your third-party dating profiles
- Customized plan of attack going forward
- Follow-ups via email
- Time: 8pm ET / 5pm PT
- Length: 3 hrs/day
- Link provided 72 hours prior
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Complimentary with
Matchmaking Package
2 Day Course + Session
March 2–6
- Days 1 & 2 plus…
- 90 minute personal session
- Scheduled between 3/4–6
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Complimentary with
Matchmaking Package
Bond is where data meets destiny — and love becomes more than chance.
A premium Gayquation experience designed to help you build a clearer, smarter relationship strategy.