Did you know you'll spend up to 2 years of your life on virtual foreplay (emails, texting, IMs) before an actual date is set in stone. So why not cut to the chase and find out if there is a possible connection with the eligible men your matchmaker qualifies. Your matchmaker (with your approval) will set up possible Insta-Dates every month. Yes... real dates. The caveat? There is no prior communication with your match. This is perfect for those adventurous souls out there who are very comfortable putting themselves in their matchmaker's hands.

He will arrange the date, time and place, preferably within 10 miles of each other and in a neutral, public locale, such as a coffee shop or restaurant. Your matchmaker will do all the work. Simply, just show up and get to know someone new!

It’s fun and exciting. You’re seeking a long term companion, after all. Life is too short... WHY WAIT?


Learn more about how Gayquation works
and view our FAQ

• Insta-Dates are optional and not guaranteed. Members are not required to participate. If you would like to only be introduced via email or phone, deselect this option on your account page.
• Keep in mind that you will not contact the match prior to the date. However, you will receive his information, including his photo(s). Your match will receive the same. Photos are mandatory by both parties.
• Your matchmaker must receive approval for the date, time and place from both parties.
• Cancellations may be made at least 12 hours prior the time of the Insta-Date.
• A courtesy call will be placed to both parties 24 hours prior to the Insta-Date. Both client and your match must respond to the courtesy call within 12 hours of the Insta-Date or it will be rescheduled/cancelled.
• All Insta-Dates cancelled by your match are replaced. All Insta-Dates cancelled by the client are not replaced.
• You may suggest a location to meet, but must be approved by your match.
• For the safety of both parties, private locations are not permitted.
• You are eligible for up to 2 Insta-Dates per month depending on your membership. Login to your profile to view your upcoming Insta-Dates.