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What is your Gayquotient?
Every gay man was not created equally.
Let's face it: The gay community is quite polarized. Due to social stigmas, family pressure, and the all-in-all slow process of acceptance of the gay culture as whole, gay men find themselves in varying emotional and philosophical points in their life. From ashamed, closeted married men to extroverted, parade-dancing "queens", gay men, rightfully-so, are a wide array of colors, as the flag suggests. Unlike straight men, this separation is quite profound between many points of the spectrum.
A glaring reason for failed m4m relationships is this separation. And why it is statistically more difficult for a gay man to find true love than a heterosexual male. See
Seeking someone of the same sex might sound like a plus on paper, “we are the same after all”. Even straight men make the joke often how life would be easier if they were just married to another man. There is a problem though. Regardless of sexual orientation, all men, and we mean ALL MEN, are ingrained and structured the same. We as a whole have been accused of being impatient, insensitive, direct, simple, immature, unromantic, one-track thinkers etc. Like two magnets with opposite charges attracted to each other, the like-charges repel. Why? Simple, because of those similarities we discussed above.
This is not to say that gay men are not destined to be in long term relationships. In fact, gay men once in a long term relationship stand a better chance than a straight man in making it last the distance. The problem lies in the initial connections. Gay men just simply have a much more difficult time than a straight man in finding long term happiness.
The founder of Gayquation realized that with any sexual orientation personality and physical traits are important, they were less important to the “long term-seeking” gay man. Two partners with the same sense of humor did not play a role in long term success where it may have paid bigger dividends with a straight couple. What stood out were other factors. Successful gay relationships were predicated on a magnification of certain factors and the shadowing of others. This is where conventional matchmaking and dating sites fail, which are bias to the hetero community and do not take unique factors special to a gay man's world into account.
Gayquotient was born
Gayquotient answers the provocative questions: “What kind of gay are you?” and “Where do you fit in the gay culture and community?". or hey, maybe you don’t. It provides a similarity among gay men that proves to solve the two-men-think-alike conundrum.
Your personal Gayquotient will be determined by your matchmaker, after a thorough examination of your profile, external web profiles, and, most importantly, a candid discussion with your assigned matchmaker. This discussion will take place via phone 24-48 hours after registering. It will be strictly confidential as your privacy is of utmost importance to us. Please be aware that personal questions will be asked during the interview. Although you are not required to answer any question, any misleading, incorrect or unanswered questions may result in an assessment that is not accurate or credible, resulting in an increasingly amount of failed matches. In essence, our matchmakers need you to help them. Always remember that we are on your side and are dedicated to succeed as part of your personal team.,
This factor is integral in the Gayquaton, as it is heavily weighed. If a match does not compare relatively favorably to yours, the match is unlikely to be qualified.
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