You're busy and don't have time to hang out in singles hotspots or wade through online personals. You're a direct person and don't like the guesswork and game playing that go along with the early stages of dating. You're shy and don't like introducing yourself to strangers. You're a discreet person and don't want to publicize your search for love. You're wary of going out with total strangers and want to meet someone through a mutual acquaintance. You're tired of “hookup” and instant gratification sites and apps that are prevalent in the gay community. You're looking for a partner with specific traits that are hard to find. You need a matchmaker that specializes in m4m relationships, experienced in qualifying factors relevant to the gay community, i.e. HIV status, closeted, sexual roles, etc. You haven't had success finding dates on your own and aren't sure why. You have a history of making bad dating choices and want some objective guidance. You want a serious long-term relationship and only want to date other singles who want the same. You're eager to find a long-term relationship and want to do so quickly. You have no idea what you want in a partner and need someone to help you figure it out. You want someone to advise and guide you through the dating process for the first few dates. Learn more about the matchmaking process. For questions & inquiries contact us. Also, view our Trust & Safety page.